{"id":4117,"date":"2011-07-29T14:42:38","date_gmt":"2011-07-29T21:42:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.jennyjones.com\/myblog\/?p=4117"},"modified":"2011-07-29T14:42:38","modified_gmt":"2011-07-29T21:42:38","slug":"matt-needs-advice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.jennyjones.com\/myblog\/matt-needs-advice\/","title":{"rendered":"Matt needs advice"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>why am i unloveable, I am rencently devoriced my wife of 5 years was cheating on me I found out several time and I forgave her and tried to\u00a0more on eventily she told me she need to sleep with other men because she did not love me that way. after i was devoriced a ex contacted and told me how much she missed\u00a0 me and we went out a few times, then she told me that she loved me she did not love me what ever that means. then 2 day ago a woman i have know for 20 year invited me out to a movie, we flirted over dinner and in the movie held hands like we were teenagers. we end up back at 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